tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1571295245153082366.post8992150118694045221..comments2023-11-22T02:37:32.364-08:00Comments on Gender Critical Dad: Keeping secrets, being hated, hoping and waiting.Just A Dadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09986957571697579906noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1571295245153082366.post-83590497237838780042017-04-29T03:41:54.408-07:002017-04-29T03:41:54.408-07:00You're not alone. What you're going throu...You're not alone. What you're going through is horrendous, but you're not alone and one day, people will listen to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1571295245153082366.post-87798642600468093392016-11-21T16:39:33.533-08:002016-11-21T16:39:33.533-08:00Someone who has good reasons to remain anonymous w...Someone who has good reasons to remain anonymous wanted to post the following. I am flattered to be able to post this for her: <br /><br />I am so enormously relieved to have found you, a voice of truth and reason echoing exactly what is swirling around my head at this moment. Thank you for sharing this space and laying bare your thoughts, frustrations and hopes. It just helps to know that I'm not alone in trying to protect my daughter from making momentous decisions based on how she thinks she feels at this moment which she could regret for the rest of her life. All I want for her is to wait until she is fully able to consider all of the consequences of this one way path that has her so mesmerised. At this point ih her like she needs to focus on getting through her A levels and college and give herself a fighting chance of making a living in this crazy and competitive world before she makes such a weighty choice. Thank you for being here, deeply and truly thank you. <br />Just A Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986957571697579906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1571295245153082366.post-85262430467076407252016-11-02T13:51:28.037-07:002016-11-02T13:51:28.037-07:00what a great Dad you are, putting yourself on the ...what a great Dad you are, putting yourself on the line to keep her safe from these predators until she is old enough and independent enough to make permanent decisions about her future and for caring about her true wellbeing despite the proliferation of shills and mountebanks eager to recruit cult members. <br />its much the same for 'trans widows'- so frustrating, your whole world turned on its head, nowhere you can get appropriate help, no one you can trust, no one you can speak openly to.. its a very lonely, painful place to be - i wish you fortitude and i hope your daughter remains safe from harm. good luck out there in the shitstorm. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09557041830592331202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1571295245153082366.post-88961112745879139862016-05-07T02:55:56.505-07:002016-05-07T02:55:56.505-07:00Thank you for posting. As parents we need empowere...Thank you for posting. As parents we need empowered and reminded we are the adults. Any professional complying with the wishes of an adolescent maturing brain should be sensitive but not endorsing. Too much, too young, too soon. Labels are for jam jars not people. Punkworkedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08190638580539433657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1571295245153082366.post-68162579199025971392016-04-30T17:28:39.005-07:002016-04-30T17:28:39.005-07:00Dad, please know there are a lot of us out here wi...Dad, please know there are a lot of us out here with you, feeling your pain and frustration. It's an amazing mindf*ck to be told that your natural desire to protect your kid's long-term mental and physical health makes you a phobic bigot. It's amazing to know that a counselor will give you a lecture about how you just need to get with the program and be brave. You know? It's unbelievable to know that your once-solid belief in progressivism is no longer sustainable. It's hard. And it pisses me off that very few people acknowledge this. I am sending you solidarity vibes from across the miles. I am sending you a wish for wisdom and strength and the ability to see your child as ... your beloved child, no matter what transpires. This too shall pass, brother. Hang in there. You're really not alone.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11748916155053627029noreply@blogger.com